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" Can -- Ninth person -- gangly welcome to your time with Kim Iverson she's your girlfriend and she's here to you know."

" Those that you think love is only a mouse click away did you see that Forbes dot com put out their best cities. For online dating number ten. Detroit Michigan and I would think so because there's nothing else is considered a second build cars into. Know what shots you could stay inside can't online eight. Number nine Dallas Texas. Yeah so. That's a good place for online dating Los Angeles, California came in eighth. And number seven. Came in Nat Philadelphia. And left Phillies when your favorite cities I love to do any online dating when I there I've never done online dating but I'm -- people in Philly yeah yeah -- sixth Portland art and that is the only city where anyone can hear this show is -- made this list no other city that can hear the show made this list except for Portland the Portland. Her clicking away I think that I love this is on the other side of your computer screen. Atlanta Georgia came in fifth. In fourth place for online dating Seattle Washington. And third San Francisco. You know why because in San Francisco you don't know as a woman if you're going -- to -- if the guy you're hitting on his hair straight right honestly a lot of gaming and online dating -- One rights and and everybody -- but at least Hewitt it's up front right when you're online dating the beauty of it is that State's gay or straight human got Abraham basket you're gonna be getting through adversity also need to be adjusted -- When I go okay they deliver in San Francisco and that area and I go out to bars and ask girls which is never now. Yes I like that guys hot but do you think he's who's he talking to -- is checking us out in -- like due test we -- walk by Steve he looks you up and down. And senate guy friend connect you walk by yeah you look -- honestly. You never now you never know fan you know it's not like men who are married and hopefully wear rings right grades they're summoned occasional lots amendment down and wearing -- there is a content that. Number two Washington DC you go there for online dating -- biggest vote because -- of the politicians they don't be caught by their wives actually dating expressed our got to go online. And the number one city for online dating Boston Massachusetts. That's surprising. You know have you been -- Boston wants everyone who's drunk. That's one -- and I noticed about Boston is it's very. I it's not be in -- love the states on my favorite but the kind of snob -- and that they love education and like your pedigree matters yeah Boston to an enemy -- the and the beauty of online dating is that you can check out a person's category. You can look online and see exactly which school they went to what level of education they have. In other estimate damages to online dating and if you're one who cares a lot about. You know in come. Education and gay or straight they don't -- it and is the way to go out all right there on the front page of their profiles. There's we're looking into online dating and perhaps you should mean 21 of those best cities for on -- dating and actually taken away. All right coming up next should you make a sex contract with your partner before getting married. Mackintosh explains this is your time --"

" Give her -- call. 8889 called him but do you -- to talk to me for one minute period because I'm like I'm like halfway there you people everything about a study it and somebody's pants you -- well my first choice of Stewart and boutique candidate drives but this would be okay. -- tall gangly."

" No one wants to -- a couple that rarely -- together well how can you guarantee your spouse won't stop pleasing you in the bedroom after your married. With us tonight to talk about sex contracts. Doctor Natasha Janine and Valdez technologist with a doctorate in human sexuality. Talked in a toss a look at the show I say. Okay so -- sex contract."

" I know it sounds crazy that. If I'm thinking what -- can agree to an all kinds that it currently before you get married and then it hit. August to crap back right right so these are our repent get hired or or you just forget -- you get lead -- get busier kids come along. -- Do they work or do not work they work sometimes with their -- they're excellent tool. To have like you should read your contract in look at it. And renew and refresh it every year -- I do you believe like -- my therapy all the time I I think he should. Look at your you should make it back contract and you hit any relief for you and reading it to its. Fell out and if you view that it's more likely gonna work because but the basic you know you might an introduction the kid might -- being. And a different direction and league or -- move or whatever all kinds of things can sort of can change it up a little bit."

" Right okay so what would you put in a sex contract."

" So so you'd be like how many times and it counts so mechanical aren't so dry inside sexy but it's really not. At least you know it's expected that -- you know what you that the deal when you -- or -- falling short. Because there's no there's no question about it."

" So what -- average about time people are putting in a sex contracts."

" Well no it's very different from person to person I can -- contracts where it is they have -- second. Once a month and that is that intercourse. And then the other a commitment for the certificates. The -- at you know they play even predatory. One per month or every other time. I Cathy C I've even done some -- and try to watch smiling writes yes and gave. How life -- the oral -- I had that would that have to be in Maryland the week."

" OK first. But in that I'm sure the women are putting now and that -- has left absolutely must stand then where. If there are -- and we there yet as a -- is a stand and insist that a."

" Well right know that because the men reporting an excuse like hey wait a minute if you have your you know Alec. I like me for the patient and it's funny because not everybody need justification they might need something else and perhaps what so revealing. About the fact contracts and are important and you're like."

" Mean I didn't need to keep. Co -- will be asked to -- that he might be doing something of focusing on an area that you don't even. The right yeah but they're not that concerned breath actual plotted frequency effects and you know there's all different -- in -- so. That you you negotiate and put it yeah point well."

" I would just imagine that the conversation alone would be really revealing an enlightening you know it's just like oh wow okay."

" It's a really good conversations happen to know what to expect and he just get married with expected and what what what or is it that counts. Mikey knew what the Kentucky what -- would like to see our second place can't have this next year he. And some people thought -- ought not have Secretary Gates. -- is that really how -- a cable that went to start with the need to re kind of the cabinet would be great at the show is that they and they can put that on."

" All right so what do you do doctor Natasha when one -- that partners breaks the contract."

" Okay what you did you come back around -- that you have. Me flirtatious discussion. And not like."

" You broke the contract. --"

" it's all about the relationship that if you plan to be -- be mentally for a long time. Then you're gonna have to pull out renegotiate the lab contractor renegotiate. So pull it out at that time talk about weight that like what areas are not working out and then renegotiate. A very serious."

" Okay all right doctor Natasha sex contract. In your marriage or even before you get married. Macintosh -- Valdez she's a technologist with a doctorate human sexuality. Her book is a little bit -- couple's guide to re discovering the thrill of sex that are website. Doctor Natasha dot com."

" What would you give up for fame. You know I mean -- you give. Hell would you give your privacy which you give. You -- morality. But that true love to be famous did you know that sixty what is it I think it's 6064%. Gen Y girls say they would release a sex tape if they knew it would make them famous. 64%. -- and saying that they are basically pull it Kim Kardashian they'd make a sex tape if it meant that they would become famous they'd be willing to give up the morality. We look at that some people are willing to give up so much to become famous mean Heidi Montag gave -- everything has given our time in our. Ever get over health would you under the knife to basically completely transformer to looking like someone totally different in a Megan Fox -- the exact same thing if you go Baxter and look at her and pictures from. Which she was younger yes just it -- sank down on pitching you hey if I'm hot I'm gonna be famous and it worked. And it worked for Heidi -- that's the sad part is and it worked. Would you be willing to get at your dignity you know the guy on a little sneaky little boyfriend Jeff grand yesterday out on the cover of magazine. And he gave up his dignity. But I just say -- I will you marry me after two weeks of dating. Yeah -- grabs the mistress of tiger -- she gave up her dignity to become famous basically. And admitting -- around with tiger has put. Privacy you know Jessica Simpson Nicklaus say they give up the privacy. Look what it cost them on a sad end up costing them their marriage for fame. Kate and -- progress every single reality star if you're willing to showcase your family or your life on reality television you're willing to give up your privacy to become famous. I mean look at what Anna Nicole Smith and that was a big joke when she did her reality show. We use is like really big and everyone's laughing -- cotton and family Oprah recently said that she gave up kids in order to be Oprah. The minimum morality. Like -- Kim Kardashian she -- sex tape. -- Now there are some other celebrities who had sex tape's release like terrorism but I don't leave she made -- to become famous now I think it was -- I think you card that she made her -- and it worked yeah it dent and then Montana Fishburne Laurence Fishburne stars season becoming a porn star now in order to be famous she flat out that that's terrible. Like the one that's not even hiding everyone else like I didn't do this for frame I'm not doing this for fame she's like -- I'm doing this to become famous yes and by the way my dad's really famous yes that's terrible off. And you could see by the jitters out of what would you give that would -- now also one of the real housewives of DC cat she's the brits in -- she says that she gave up true love for frame. Because her husband only two years left there. Oh really yeah with her being on the show why now too much for the marriage and she wouldn't stop that now she seems to be second guessing and she gave -- true love. How K so there's. Health dignity privacy family morality true love which -- to give up to be famous. I really don't wanna be famous I would say none but if I had to pick up yet to pick one I would say morality."

" Put it up ever rally early Abbott says sex tape I don't care why. I mean really everybody's doing it. Another one of many of -- Just another person you can watch a video having -- Hey -- it's a difference and what would you give that to be famous health dignity privacy family morality or true love not my family know my health and I guess privacy I mean I think it comes along with it. And have to deal with you give up privacy -- nights we could like put cameras in your house. All you guys around on his knee given up privacy and not my fan out to everybody -- no one's gonna care about is watching you look at. You -- it's true I asked him 24 hours -- Get me start doing things that are really unique because Paul hold on their own. But again I think that there are people that and that might be called giving up your morality. -- I give up true love. Snagged in a true love for I -- like cat. From real housewives of DC because you know what you could find true love again. Well more people wanna deal answer on the show like -- have more options I say you -- if you think you love someone and then you're famous. Might as well give them up because if there's better people -- You're -- give up your morality yeah because the way I figured is if that person leaves you after your famous. You can find another person a lot I don't and he loved. What you've got a letter expect that I mean the rest of -- have -- a few times so. You know at this one walks away hell there's another winner al-Qaeda and other land I'd give -- true love for fame. And you say I'm cold hearted. You're calling it a grammar rally at any act is still keep my true love now after the sex tape release they might not want you know that's your outlook. Opening up the phone lines well would you be willing to give up for. Fame your health your dignity your privacy your family your morality true love. He may call 8889 cost him."

" So a statistic came out saying that 64% of gen Y girls would give up their morality in order to be famous they would make gay sex tape. Believe it or not I'm curious what would you give up to be famous your health like Heidi Montag on a plastic surgery your dignity. Like Jamie Grubbs who came out as the mistress of Tiger Woods your privacy. Your family. Your morality true love what would you give up aerial."

" Definitely to look I agree with you my deep respect and I. I like it they've really glad you -- come back here at they look at it -- put your genes of going pro which you want."

" Yeah and an update and even if they do love you and you lose it you could probably love someone again. And it even better -- you know you never know yeah it'd be more pay us hopefully and they they may be -- let's. -- who. You can hit the riot you know -- yes the way I see your health you can't get it back when Heidi Montag. She can't go back to the way she used to look to your dignity your ticket that back your privacy. Again you know you can either you can't take any of these things back that you get true love back that's let us cut the way I."

" that's exactly what I mean not everybody go to Portugal Portugal even. I aerial thank you Chris thanks Ken Levine."

" A Britney welcomed the show. -- are right what would you give up to be famous."

" I mean honestly not and they get everything you -- argument like morality family practice -- that they need that are important things. I'm in I."

" We have a boring you have to give up -- bank."

" Think -- now I would rather like I'd rather -- it I that are being payment and honestly I'd rather be successful in the same. I see okay have to give up wine. How can I had actually give up what can I get. That's how we get captured let you know on this because that's something you can definitely get back at all I'm not believing that yes all night -- dealer like that. Which you can always find like yeah yeah out that's -- a couple times exact."

" Is adamant that you would also give up true love I guess how many people do it."

" Yeah I made it yet you have a posting you'd like that's like it -- love -- but. I definitely get my morality for that they -- not immediately XTI. I LC -- it. I'm mad at myself battle at a saying right in -- and -- I would think that I wanna I -- that's what it was for something other than you know exposing myself."

" Now like god forbid you be talented right yeah. All right our right to bring out so yeah of the amateur night thank you like the Bible I see everybody agrees with me -- you're just no. Thanks for joining me this is your time is -- Iverson."

" Why would attitude and thanks a group is not cold and tenderness. Please check out what button at times none of them pizza. Night person tall -- welcome to you time with Kim Iverson."

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" 61% of teenagers have personal profiles on social networking sites with your kids being out there on the worldwide web. How are you going to keep them safe I know that we've heard the horror stories like. And Ashley hall back in November when she told her mother she's going to sleep at a friend's house. When instead she actually erased a secret rendezvous with a stranger. Posing as a teenage boy on the Internet site. And within hours she had been kidnapped raped and killed. By a 32 year old man -- Seventeen year old Ashley -- yes she was talking apparently to a sixteen year old boy on FaceBook who she thought. Was -- 60 point said he was gonna meet somewhere his dad was gonna pick her up and the dad was the guy who is grooming her all along. Only to kidnap her recurring killer while it does every parent's nightmare right we it was they don't talk to strangers and in an online it's difficult and who -- the strangers he lacked the strangers you know I mean. I think the average person can really only have about a 150 -- adding according to experts. Yet we have thousands of friends hundreds of friends on FaceBook rain the other not really your friends. They're friends of friends or maybe acquaintances -- people you met once they're not actual friends you don't really know who these people are. Your city your kids they're out there there during the S and and they're trying to out friend each other and I surely. The status symbol of how many friends I'm so popular I have 12100 friends on FaceBook -- vs you know. The lonely -- its goal line and a hundred twine -- something. It is so it is definitely scary for parents to be having their kids. On on you know places like FaceBook and MySpace in fact and 48% at 1617 -- report that their parents know very little or nothing. About their online activities 71%. Have reported receiving messages from someone they do not know. Yeah. 44% of online teens with profiles on FaceBook have been contacted by a stranger. Compared to only 16%. Who do not have profiles. That is a huge increase in kids were contacted by strangers and we said can we say don't talk to strangers. But I think all kids take that -- don't talk to strangers who are driving up in a white van asking you to and it sample is candy -- No we're not thinking of the social networking site and and now. Things are getting worse because in just a few days ago FaceBook announced its new -- FaceBook -- which is really similar to foursquare which basically. If you agree to. Allow the app then it'll tell everyone where you are so you like I just checked it on I have and I -- to get an iPhone are smart found -- You're able to tell people like I'm looking through my list of friends and I've got one woman starlet she's out -- Well Donna as at a theater. Of asset. We've got camera music gold's gym right now. That's so weird Gavin that point for our fitness. Ha yeah well he's at the airport. I mean you I can't say here and I -- go through all my friends on FaceBook and find out where they are. And how long did they check in there so some people it they checked in nine hours ago. At that location some people in checked in 41 minutes ago six minutes ago at -- still there so they're still -- so I really wanted to find starlet for instance that glow she's probably still hanging out. At a -- walked treated though the storm like star hello. So I know you hear. Well okay so any normal adult is sitting here thinking well why would I ever allow this app I wouldn't I leeway. You know fourteen year old going to. Yeah they think it's cool it's up. So they're out they're showing all their friends where they are especially if they're going to cool places. And who knows who isn't really one of their friends out of the 655. On FaceBook. The could be some pedophile -- is created a fake profile pretending to be sixteen -- the movies last week remember that remember. You know it ends up being or EO is the sixteen on the net but and that really be your creepy -- filed add. Mean just never know it's so difficult to keep kids safe are on base that the coming up we have a couple of experts are gonna tell you how you can protect the dangers. And the Internet from your kid you can also download a new program that'll help you. -- five but not spy on your kids -- chat with some experts nexus of your time you might percent."

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" If you're one of the millions of people with day and and I found -- Smartphone than you may be of notice Facebook's new app called places. Which is a feature that allows you to post your exact location and on your profile based on your cell phone's GPS. Sounds pretty freaky Amanda this is like what we are all fighting against right it was having. Big Brother watching us well now Big Brother is watching witness to tell us how we can protect our kids. From this online until it seems to be perfect for stalkers is Mary -- she's the president and CEO. And that CEO of the kids only community you were -- dot com Mary -- welcome to show. So this new -- places you think this is perfect for stalkers and predators --"

" I think it's a perfect tool to exploit the safety and privacy not only person pharmacist kids but. Adults and to put it. Children at risk."

" First explain this apt to asked I'm I'm having a hard time understanding it myself."

" Well you know accede GPS on steroids but the whole Lotta people. And know what you are -- where your children are without often times their consent."

" Okay. So how are in my might think that the way it works is that I just am typing in where I am. And then that's that tells everyone but you're saying no it's a little bit more than that."

" Yeah it's -- it's little bit more than not for the following reasons no. -- number one yet. You don't want to -- where whereabouts broadcasted. Or if you don't want your children's whereabouts broadcasted. Number one pick but do you think it was a choice to opt out at that. Number one number two if you've -- this step by step instructions to and to limit your exposure you can make sure -- that. Your whereabouts is it posted however what I found me personally using this -- new application. I would be able to -- on location and look all the around me all of the people that I knew. And -- let everybody else knows not only I went public they were --"

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" 00 you know so I had. I went to my friend lists and you know I I thought three people in this look copies popular got. There on my FaceBook friends list I just said that I answered the question who's with me and I clicked on the three people that were with me ice then sent out a news feed. To let everybody know. The three other people without power out of public locations and I did not want to ask them. Whether or not they wanted everybody else to know where they were apparently later. But let me apologize after I cut some phone calls -- you know couple that Mary -- why did he do that to be -- you let everybody know where I was. And you know they know me and my mission -- like the look I was testing this application it's a huge concern --"

" Yeah so if they just bought used somewhere there has come that you talk to you but as long John their FaceBook friends list that they can broadcast everyone where you --"

" Correct -- when it comes to kids -- huge. The violation. Of 8 federal law that central it's public children's online privacy protection act yeah and him it's there it's. -- reason to protect. Children's privacy online. And every I mean commitment everyday when FaceBook allows anybody under the age of thirteen -- their site there's their -- the FTC in the patent violation of the -- And then let that -- like this. Did you put my kids. And your listeners kids' privacy accurate."

" because anyone can just broadcast where they are."

" In light in you know if if if a child is at a location in her teens. And they wanna connect with their friends patio and here comes between me they can use email I mean no over the thought they could use. Of course text messaging -- because you know put to good old fashioned phone call. And while our kids has -- network -- oftentimes they have network of networks of friends I hadn't that they are not always personally connected to right."

" Right exactly while -- thing is that -- that is a giant French collector I mean a lot of teenagers are trying to collect as many friends as they can because it makes them look cool. And then of course they're gonna broadcast where they are especially if it is summer cool because again they wanna look cool."

" really pretty and you know they wanna look cool but you know without -- I'm. I am very concerned. That there aren't going to be issues coming up whether it's in three weeks the three months. That suddenly there was an issue girl at a party. If someone -- and you know plain scared. -- and something happens that girl."

" Someone was at bat girl you know under you know within it had an issue with the -- right didn't wanna be Veronica Cabrera girls. Whatever it is cyber bullying it's it's just going to give us. I'll read too much personal private information to those that should only happen."

" Yet it seems like this would be a big violation for anyone I mean just imagine if your woman -- escaping a domestic violence situation and and you -- you have a lot of friends and they use the -- places and and they put you all together at a party. And or at a club or at the movies and you know the -- friends with when your friends and is able to see that update ten. -- is being a real big problem for -- when I can't believe that they allow you to -- friends in those places I guess it's like tagging them in photographs. A year tagging them and place says -- everyone knows where you are."

" That's correct and you know -- which is. Particularly indicative. -- really FaceBook cares about your privacy by her children is me never give up these options."

" Right at all opt out. So that's one problem with this and merry -- is there any option for us to get out of us."

" You'll know walked to pick up there aren't thinking he could do better be active to proactively make sure that if someone. Tagged and tagged -- eighth place that you can make a backpack only goes to view. So -- another step by step with picture instructions. I think it you know it can be complicated yeah our artistic. Sort sphere. What you're as PH Erie for parents stop crime and I'm here with everybody what you can do that you can. Not yet and it chapters settings so that it is people want anything to do -- it right and they spoke to get out of our control. You can you can go there get into action."

" Excellent Mary -- thank you so much she's the president and CEO of the kids only community your -- dot com also the community. Your sphere for parents dot com go there and get step by step instructions on how how you -- it protect yourself and your kids from being tagged in places. And having stalkers and predators finding them. Thank you so much Mary Kate coming up next. One of AOL AOL has come out with a new product that'll help you minding your child's -- the page. Without you having to spy on them we'll chat with without expert nexus is your time with him Iverson. You wanna know what your kids are up to on FaceBook but you don't -- resort to spying well there's now a new product from AOL that allows you to do just that. Here to show the details is holly Hawkins AOL's online child safety expert hi holly welcome to the show."

" I can thank you so let's just new product calls the new product is called -- social that he product it released by any welfare. -- the tip of social networking site you what does it do it provides paying. You into their child social networking. World whether that be FaceBook MySpace and Twitter. Without having to friend that child nowadays we're finding more and more that. The answer that parents have -- plot to become your friend monarchy a bit. -- the paint and we don't really want that that's a lot of peer pressure not to have your parents feel when your friends list. They'd they'd get people find it in various things right they actually you don't have to do that. At least how exactly does it work sand save social once you register for an account -- ask you for your hand if you figure out email addresses. And what you put those in it -- in invite your child. So upfront it require open and honest communication. And the best thing to do -- have a conversation with your child. They listen I know you wanna use social networking site I'm a bit concerned about what could potentially happen. So let's look at -- that -- that I can keep in Iowa you and I still don't have to friend."

" Okay so can you explain is a little bit more like exactly what would you see if you were part of this what did you see if you were to monitor the kid."

" Certainly I want to connect with your child through fake social. You're able to see people -- status updates and the posting. They're putting on MySpace FaceBook Twitter you're able to see their friends. You can see the vote but that they've uploaded and concede that photos that there in that had been tagged with their name. And I don't think he's delivered UN is very easy to read. Almost like report card format. And we also in addition to giving unit information we will alert parents to potential wrecked by experienced. There -- a friend of your child that appeared to be in the top. Or it doesn't have any other friends I have within that network. Well we'll let the apparent that they can they can take a closer look at let me keep something going on there. It was bad language hip and leg which had been used that -- that drugs alcohol profanity. Act even who they thought it looked like that in alert the parent that that that language had taken place."

" now is that only language that takes place on their Waller went about their inbox and out box."

" It is the information comes from what they -- publicly on the wall. It did not go to their inbox or they're out but with it and -- through you know."

" Okay so that there's really no way for us to monitor what they're writing in their emails. No I cannot at all so this is just mainly for the public viewing anything anyone else really could see we would be able to see."

" Well it got limited and we just public feeling. Because what you're doing is you're getting behind the -- so to speak up like your topic posting they could have privacy settings. -- you couldn't see anything at all. That do you think they actually can get behind that and take a look at what they're posting take -- look -- to have friends are and -- that he be a different deal."

" I think what would be really valuable about this is that. Words that refer to drugs or violence or bullying or even suicide are you guys typing into your programs even the slang words that teens are using these days."

" This diet there's hundreds of terms that -- so like you believe that buying it represented as well that at that point."

" Yeah let's get to the lot of you know when you get past -- certain generation you no longer understand what the kids are talking about anymore. Well. That's great all right holly will thank you so much so parents can grab the says save social dot -- right -- a background that is their cost to it or."

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" And what if you have multiple kids. I didn't have up support -- our awesome okay the website is -- social dot com. And these new products from AOL is called save social allows you to monitor your kids what they're doing. On the FaceBook pages that without having to resort to spying holly thank you so much for joining the show. Thank you. I would open up the phone lines and juries have ever snooped on your child's face the page and found something -- call 8889 calls him. Kathleen nearest neighbor."

" I am. And I absolutely had -- this you're just you snoop on them absolutely I would totally out front there's a key -- software if you Google at their bank -- And there's one called spektr's -- it's about fifty dollars. And there are no monthly fee is set Gmail or Hotmail or Yahoo! or any types -- even an AOL account."

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" Sucks to be hand all right well thank you so much for joining us tonight be sure to keep your kids safe on -- there are a lot of online predators."

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" Yes welcome to you -- in the -- and she's your girlfriend did you see your email."

" And so -- sex I just found a man in my dreams and he's in a relationship with some -- girl. How serious can it be I -- are kidding right to break the relationship. I'm trying to Facebook's docket right now but there's this guy Jeremy -- who was he anyway. EC it BS professional football player I'm not sure that he is anymore. It's now ready play for is -- for the Eagles. And the Steelers I see this I just all of them because I watched a video that my dad's semi where he was giving today predictions of who was gonna win the college football. Championship. Any of that might team Boise State in there."

" in ads and any man. He's -- predict my college football team wins the national championship is a man with marrying planes into. Hard on the eyes either now he's younger we know I like younger men and is from the -- rapidly act like -- reverend -- it and that's. I mean land. -- he's dating some of them anyway. What I saw on things that. You're crazy. Speaking of crazy things that women do on here. I ran across this article today where it lists all of these things I'd say it was little uncomfortable to read it. Because it was so true. Now Adam but I did like how it's specifically targets women think that -- things that women do on FaceBook I can't imagine men don't do these things as well but here's the list okay. Women set up fake profiles to follow -- on FaceBook. True. I've done it. My friend than. Your friends quoted him my friend that I don't do that -- Craig listening don't want him to know that you set up eight dollars on base but I don't have my friend -- if anything it will do it myself you know usage you would do is you would set up the fake profile. -- some hot girl. And I liked. Try to entice your boyfriend into an affair just to see if he falls well I didn't say I would do that as -- some girls seemed -- think -- yeah. He did you ever you instead you know that girls have done that I wonder how often networks. Now at a pick up on the -- Asking for trouble not you know what -- the guy's gonna be that. Big of a jerk too. -- fact checking him. It he shouldn't be so easily manipulated. -- Not often has ladies get hit on by men men loved it on women on line and if we can resist you meant and residents don't fall for the if she's too good to be true she is she's a dude did. I. See your girlfriend yeah. Act okay women also manipulate through FaceBook photos so a -- and stands. A woman will put up embarrassing her compromising photos of people that have gone on about I I have girlfriends who do this they don't like a particular girl. And there's a photograph of all of us together something and a girl like for instance we wrap party -- right. And one girl had horrible. Pit sweat. If -- sweat like you wouldn't believe it was worse than a man. I mean insisted dark circle hit sweat. And my girlfriend who. Was mad at this particular girl the time tender in the photo that's -- out. Not all that I was just gonna be embarrassing compromising photos for this girl please -- me. I did not I thought the picture he was cute there was no compromise it wasn't like you're you're. Underwear are showing or your pits and I just like growth snow okay. And we'll also put up compromising photographs of the guy if they break up you know July maybe you in your way for a break up it's a little put up the picture of him in your dress. Am just to get back and a little look at what -- likes to dress that -- While that we are not suggest that women also post passive aggressive Facebook's status update by -- as -- I'm never gonna vindictive photographed thing. I -- said set -- profiles to follow -- on base and it the the last person I did that she was Abercrombie and I set up a fake profile because he had blocked me from his. That is out of it fades like its beauty is up to you and and now but I've never done that I've never done a manipulative. Photos I've done other types of and then women -- and passive aggressive FaceBook status update and yes -- done that LT absolutely guilty oh win over users' status updates to air complaints about their relationship instead of sitting down and talking guilty but I -- of the night. What my girlfriend was just to gauge -- in fact I girlfriends have been engaged to in the last five -- and that. -- Or don't settle for less than what you deserve. I exactly I asked about. Women will also post ambiguous relationship photos now this is something I have done. Right you post a picture of you with a guy and it looks like your blood VW relationship but what you're not saying that it's a gay best friend. I a as a like your hand in all of Bremer may be giving -- kiss on the cheek he's giving you a kiss on the cheek yeah. Maybe your fighting with your boyfriend or not I and a Mac guy at this now you make sure that anybody. Don't know that I need to say he's -- that you let me go out. Equipment all of this stuff on days out imagine that the men don't I was gonna say not 10 what ever I don't know one guy that does that combined. I don't -- you don't do any of these things. No one guy 203040. Years old that those guys aren't smart enough and that. -- I'm gonna open up the phone lines on -- now. What do you men do come on -- what else has your woman done to your ladies contest 88925554."

" Give or call 8889 called him she said she broke up with her because she refused to have sex funny you wouldn't. I don't mind telling."

" Eric what crazy thing did you do on FaceBook."

" I am and let it -- the -- on social networking site and my boyfriend had a cute wit. Having eight accounts are legal and not women and and I caught in the act how to get greatly and it had a lot on. A couple months later I decided they account and I hit on him. And but he would be a quiet he called -- and got out -- it -- but I have done it out to see you would you know."

" I understand you just said to me my boyfriend has a problem with going onto sites in creating profiles and sing -- single -- and hitting on him Manuel."

" Yeah Gallo. At issue in the hot and I Italian web site click. --"

" I know I'm surprised that you put up with it you're like nobody. Yeah like it's a ticker something like -- my boyfriend has an issue it's innocent it's. Is is like -- patents."

" Well I would I it was the right yeah what am."

" So we I would do it right -- and that we talk we act like a re hourlong op where you're never gonna do it got all of lot that's like created the account."

" Right -- actually. You should travel and on line did not do it again some time. Well I -- just to make sure all right Sara thank you -- At least he was gonna maybe he could sense it was her hi Dan. So you had an -- do that tears she made a profile and hit on him."

" No not exactly she made a profile. Can meet. She -- my own profile. Go to my friends thought I had a MySpace or whatever and she used that trying to check up on me and checked up -- my stories substance to -- And on my brand -- so. Yeah last for it was so awesome I."

" Well that's pretty smart -- does you. It's smart of her back. Is that it -- hot ticket to an abiding in that way she does goes straight to the source the -- your friends they're like you had dude. Annually in Niagara you know and then maybe the guys the last something like -- who is the girl you were chatting with their perhaps things go with this girl right."

" Yeah the only problem was is that I was but -- out and I saw him on his MySpace. I saw my pictures and mine on MySpace and and I realized that would limit the -- in my state. And I kind of got down to the caught her I cut her totally bothered did you break up with -- Yes that's on out when girls -- like that they're the ones you know usually. He you know little sketchy cheating --"

" So now yeah yeah all right Dan thank you crazy. That's pretty clever she created -- for his profile that's women are evil. What did you men are down but okay we might be evil but we wouldn't need to be evil if you guys -- to TD it kind of that. -- and me about what the show I'd like to hear your stories what crazy staying. Has your ex or current -- you want face that 888925554."

" Welcome back to show -- hopefully you're having a great night if you wanna comment on anything -- feel free that number is 888. 925554. Do you people ever overcome selfishness and relationship. Kind of they do it because I got into the biggest fight today. I think it's over. Over not yeah well I'm now I'm at that point grants -- existing completely fed up to where you know win. You fight about something so much that finally hurts turns to just anger and and you start to hate them. -- I. Like it just becomes present it like resentful and and then you know relationships is get to that point more than just -- And starting to get that to that point over this issue because the issue isn't resolving as this one -- an issue I just wish he would get it. Or I need to get it like one of -- needs to data that's but something is seriously not working that basically long story short. You know I know he's been hurt in the past so I tried to be patient with them he's been very open about being hurt now this is caused him to be very cautious diving into relationship with anyone. So you know since I felt this tremendous connection with the might decide to be patient seat. What could come from things especially since he's being open about having been hurt in the past and and that sometimes now I'm discerning thinks some people just are damaged. And maybe there's just no way to ever get through past the damage or. Yeah -- maybe I should be to -- this is I don't need to deal with somebody is damaged or her I don't know but. You know when we're together everything's great I was just there this past weekend was great he's very sweet he says sweet things he's very cuddly cute he's Aaron. And he's all the things you want him to BE. Already gathered he does say a more emotional. Emotionally open things and we're together in and so he does open up to me that you know it's a great relationship. The few times that we've seen each other. But when we're apart he's not the best to communicating. Okay so he doesn't text he isn't call. He -- I mean nearly as much as I mean you know I need communication I need to to feel like I'm involved. Otherwise I just I get bored it's like -- heavy DD and you know I I just I used to relationships where you talk in the phone a couple times a day you text all throughout the day. I like isn't that pretty normal relationship doesn't have to be normal -- I use is he supposed to call you any doesn't call you or I are expecting an colony. I expected to call and have expressed to him numerous times that I need more communication. In order for this to develop for me and he's kind of expressed that he doesn't wanted to develop as quickly. That may -- he thinks I'm developing it fast and he's comfortable developing it because. He's mean he's just very cautious about falling in love with someone after the last time. Dot -- happened to him you know he was cheated on and the girl ran off with. You know I mean it was just it was bad right -- so -- you know it's like I've been damage to everyone's been damaged -- writer get over it. Or you -- lonely I mean yeah. It just seems like -- may be a lot more than he wants to get right now. Made me. You know I get yeah I mean and that's kind of what he says I mean we've seen each other totaled three times. Answer he throws out in my face all the times as well we've only seen each of the three times a -- a -- BQ after three times of senior. And like Jabber we've seen each of the three times since January in and we -- the entire time since January. And we've had a very strong connection and we could be at this for a year and because as long distance we've seen each other ten times units -- that my face for the rest of ever. -- you know because of long distance or not to be able to see each other physically got much. We could certainly Skype every day we could certainly colored text every day. He's just a -- just can't commit them it's time. So then I'm like fine then we're done like that's that's fine Mikey don't seem to really want this to that I start to walk away because he's cutting giving -- the signs of I don't want this I mean if he's sitting there saying well I can't invest the time. And we've only seen each of the three times and I'm not in love with yet because of three times. Like -- opinion on me right. Well also than a minute I say that he's kind of like well. I'm gonna just stay on Skype tonight and wait for you and if you reconsider. And Skype me. And it's like why is she fighting for it right when I'm like. -- doesn't really fight for he he does is you'll go back and forth with me over and over and over again you know we've had this fight and it's gone bad like it -- levels. Numerous times and he stuck around every single time so did you say that to me where to gather he's like doesn't it say something to use that even after you blow up and I'm. And we get mad at each other than I'm still here I'm still wanting to build this relationship with series like doesn't that say something do you. I like yet it doesn't say it. Looked like you just want more are well yeah I think I need. I need more time and attention and I you know -- here's the deal. I'm the money maker so he still in college economic anybody's I -- its monetary really investing in the relationship. I'm the one that. I have to pay for the flights I -- it pays for them a lot of the dinners and he will pay for what he can but he doesn't make as much money so he's. He pays minimally thanks so I'm. Monetary leading investor I have no problems investing monetary -- relationship that I think is worth it OK I understand his financial position and and I have a connection with them so I feel like it's fine. I also on the one investing my time because I'm willing to talk to him I'm willing to Skype I'm willing to give up my time with my friends or other guys. Too focused on him. And I'm willing to invest my emotions which aren't that easy especially after my break up with Abercrombie last December and I mean I'm damage to. Right but it seems to me like he's not willing to invest three that he doesn't have money to invest but he's not willing to invest time or emotion. Enemies to than what is investing."

" but also he's not who you dated in the past like you're past. Ex boyfriends have been available for you right they've been dying to talk to everyday and I got the you've told me that. This the cub is not like that he's got to communicate or he doesn't even really talk much at all but I you're expecting him to be somebody that he's not. So I think that's kind of your -- well kind of but."

" I mean like last night it would have been nice to get a text from him when you know at at night before he went to bad. It turned out he was driving from Fort -- on a boulder. And then but it's like in you know season I got -- 1130 and I understandable because out of doctors -- the next morning -- like well why couldn't you have text me. On your way to boulder. To tell me that you're going to bolt or that we were gonna be -- the Skype like why couldn't you just text what why is a Texas to for Kim Burton right yeah I I agree it shouldn't be but also you're expecting a lot of them. And he's telling you I'm not I kind of person and I guess the decision not to make is. Which I think I've made -- Okay I get he's not that type of person and I unfortunately can't be with somebody like that I need more attention to fuel. Connected because it's long distance I need more attention to feel loved to feel connected to -- I bring that will put. They're -- just return the can't look you get. He's scared. Now he's a jerk who -- scared him upgrade. Hmm. I don't know what to do 889 caught him. Basically the -- and giving me the time and attention that I'm looking for in the relationship I'm thinking of walking away at what do you think David."

" So I mean it is a college student so. No lot of time three. Understood our case like relationships take a lot of like pursuit they take wear you out and so you probably if the guys in college he may not understand that. It's not there is beyond repair Bennett. He probably does does not understand. What it takes like what it means to pursue your relationship like. And it -- doesn't perceive things in general out but he's probably pursuing a lot of other things right right you know and like he talked about being in love it it's like you're talking about her during her relationship and investing yourself and something. And so it's -- really different and obviously we all long could be in a place where we are in -- but it takes -- to get -- diet and they did not exactly and."

" Exactly say you're you're saying he's just not wise enough yet to pursue so he could maybe want the relationship or maybe he wants a lot of things that he just doesn't understand pursuit. Right okay odds -- and I hear you thank you David. By Eric what's your take."

" Well I I agree with that what was said earlier about. Got a -- running out of time fast I am sorry first of all now what is window of opportunity quote and quote it is -- thing -- and also want you what we communicated and how. So how you can expect really communicated. -- on its been online."

" Yes and Esther -- and expect anything from that he hasn't ever been militiaman and he can gives out. Looks like I'm single I'm free area that -- Your time with him Iverson could be yours that."

" You say look you don't want to complete. Well my first choice was -- The boutique -- can't drive but this would be okay. But -- therapeutic option for one more minute series because my camera halfway there will continue time with him Iverson she's your girlfriend and easier for you now."

" Welcome to the show is lifeline and tonight with me is OB GYN doctor Monica turn hi Monica welcome to the show."

" I -- thanks for having me."

" Doctor Monica is here to answer any -- women's health questions we thought this would be great tonight there's play any amount out their arms of his lots women who have. Issues and concerns and and would love to be able to -- an ask an expert that's exactly it lifeline as the number 888. 9225554. And we're gonna have doctor Monica her with us all hours soak it to questions ready and if you can't get -- on phone lines go ahead and email the man. Jamming your time with -- dot com. So Monica before we open up the phone -- listeners there's a big question that a lot of that I personally have a lot of my -- of how to not as. How can the birth control pill that makes it's where you only have. I figure period like three or four times a year how can -- possibly be healthy."

" Well I think it is that any time that you are gonna get -- Are just not have a regular period every month. It is safe to do as long as you are on birth control. If you have a medical problem. Where. But some batteries that you don't know tiger skipping your period bet that it's certainly be unhealthy but when -- the hormones hormones tends to. Then album -- to your uterus so that there's actually -- things he said. During your -- so that's why when we're taking in a month to month birth control pill. I. And you can have actually tweak -- birth control pill -- hormones in them. To allow you to not even have to have a period at all. But if you have four periods a year it's safe. One other question about him to get a lot is. It isn't building up inside of me and not coming out it's like absolutely not bad but the talks so that actually -- Benin. The lighting from building -- there's actually nothing to."

" Okay so there it's not yes that's on your bathtub. And that's when you have your wanted to really best offense. That."

" They there are conditions medical problems where you'd do it can't get that kind of scenario but. You're not having regular periods the -- the adopted -- outlying get treated properly the treatment at apartment so. I don't want that mining the and they get to pay its regular now."

" Is there a difference between taking I think it that the -- out that that's like that a season neat that's going to make it three don't have that very often you'll have a three for times a year or something like that. Is there -- difference between taking -- or just skipping the sugar pill portion of your regular birth control and just continuing on."

" Exactly you can do this with your regular pill however the hormones are kind of different for each. Different type -- the -- Barrett barriers without a doubt there. So you can apparently always get that but the propelled them -- is such a tough have a period at least everything must establish -- truly is getting for a year. But. Reform. Well cause you to have more spotting and between. Eat bandwidth fees in the eighth when your body first to -- used to they met lining trying to stand out if it happens by adding that I carrying. When you're not on your period and that can be annoying and frustrating and I -- just give happened today. You know -- forget it I'm on the back to having a period every month originally if you stick with it usually. Within that month. Sometimes nine but -- within six months that in spite of the way everybody completely and you only have that period isn't I don't know what time."

" Excellent are we are on the line doctor Monica her and she is an OT OB GY and -- any questions for tonight's lifeline go ahead -- a called numbers 888. 922555. Or any women's health. Question and send them our way this is your time with him Iverson."

" Give -- called. 8889 called him."

" Yeah how you say that you don't want to get -- yeah. Act."

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" Concrete. I I -- that machines -- you."

" I have a co -- could be coming up. And I don't worry I didn't know why. Is the possibility. If they find any thing -- that widget because they're big I have to do -- buy out the all right Brian what -- statistics are sure somebody I just happy. Can't error or something coming back that I got."

" What's it called -- to start off with a -- Tosca."

" could be is aware -- and we are frequently performing these tests and then. And probably millions of women actually. But it's probably. Abnormal pap says that affect most of us and -- ATV. Basically it's him a couple of a virus is sexually transmitted and it's prevalent and about 80% of sexually active individual. -- Avi Bryant pretty much considered an okay get sexually active. You've got to come into contact with HPV. And that is why I believe it only actually recommend got a put your age groups so. He should definitely talk about talk to your doctor about. Another -- questions so we're gonna go to the coat pocket being. We haven't abnormal pap smear. And you probably have -- most likely again. We. Basically put the speculative buy with a pap smear and then we put Democrat on your cervix is the abnormal cells well just light up for a the -- Pope Pope is what we kind of work through this problem magnifying glass so that there's any small Lisa's there we can see it. And if we see as. A significant what can be and we were partly due out by having him up -- it without security because it's going on down there we don't really wanna be happening to really. And but it really democratic opponent is with a quick pits and had ever had just like that. It -- I'm not sure what. Stage you're past their weapons -- like -- abnormal. You may end up with one or two biopsies. If it's something that was really. Significant. That you may end up with several less -- doctor's way of making sure you don't have cancer. The obvious having cancer extremely extremely loud the odd that you actually need additional procedures deputies called -- could be the -- gonna end up having read people updated every six months. And he eventually it -- go away on its."

" Okay. Aren't all thank you very much and the -- talk. About it I."

" I land. Hey what's your question for doctor Monica turned."

" Are my question is. Do you start caring manner possible for a year and having your carriers they considered after. And how long after you're done. You know after your last period usually start -- and the things like hot flashes and things like that."

" Actually the symptoms of menopause can actually -- experienced and it's seeing it still has. Regularly regular periods that are fairly consistent period. -- have hot flashes. That's not drive as. Hair -- dedicated -- changes. Arbiter of the medal plaza without having the end it does have a period hit. Then a -- it actually when you have completed eight full year without having appeared at. And that period where we complimenting -- can be a few years before Ahmedabad where he appears as a kind of become sporadic. They can be every three weeks they could be a -- very Laden's. They can be every six months. You can go off all depend -- that the pitcher is gonna be done and out of bend Indiana to me again. So let a -- is actually when you complete twelve months of that here."

" Okay and so if you know. Like -- mad about indictment that I end up having. Had my last cycle all. I've not any symptoms of hot flashes or anything like that is that in -- probably won't."

" Or are. You probably want here -- won't have those symptoms. You're very you're lucky and it would be glad. I'm angry and delegates everybody don't."

" Banks free golf -- the thinking is that by. We have doctor Monica heard what does she is our lifeline experts that OB GY and we're taking your calls about your women's health issues 88892. You. 5554. Will be back."

" Doctor Monica -- is with us tonight for a lifeline to the OB GY and an expert for just -- dot com. Also has a private practice just outside of Dallas were taking your calls about women's health. A man figure on the line with doctor Monica her much a question."

" I love about. Eight and a half nine years ago I was told. On bias the only doctor that I had to positioning of HPV that cause Christian that the word."

" And I have only ever had to one initial outbreak."

" Loans I was wondering if it was possible that I could have been misdiagnosed. Or -- if that's possible for that to kill me. And I can -- yeah."

" How what you -- Bradley patted me. And it attacked and you didn't them that your -- that the test pop up that virus and a -- getting it from flourishing in causing further. -- If sometime in the future where you become pregnant -- it's alive he usually women will have any kind of an -- during pregnancy. Are if they became you know with some type a chronic illness that we can be immune system. Back most likely -- habits. You know I think it has these non painful. Genital lesions that kind of look dry. Likewise do. That you looked likely to have it that in that they really should worry about. It's supplement your values and decides about the -- of."

" Indirectly. A certain candidate dormant stage. -- So now rice is she able to spread that other people when it's dormant yet -- it's -- had to be careful. Okay all right Damon thank you Amanda. -- That's always bad news right but yet but there's no cure for that."

" There's let's get the -- with MTV don't have PP. It was -- just better than others."

" So you say everyone has HPV pretty much everybody has HPV but. But it does everyone have distract this does strain of HPV that causes genital warts."

" There are hundreds of different strain that's fair and there are not bad all strains have not been identified. And easily if say they you've been infected with from China based TV. And you never know it's a strain that would cause the epilogue that's being sent the progress of his cervical cancer right. For its its sister I am content -- towards. It's that the pretty good mixtures. Yeah people you know will never see each channel they TV at all where both load slowly using these companies want but I was looking at animal -- as --"

" Right and connect. All right hi Charlie. Welcome to the show what your question for doctor Monica turned."

" I ain't hectic at everything. As married -- attached to protect itself back. Right. And it's having the opposite effect on me I'm more fertile. And on -- street I'm -- control."

" How is that possible for it to have an opposite effect for her to be more fertile."

" a baby maker. I do not I don't let the -- about it we'll -- wow. Yeah you probably do better whereas. Slash. -- you we implant thicker than your arm. And I that I haven't haven't really seen any pregnancy is -- at the end of the time. That there -- those women who are paying women had to put it that was the -- so -- we can make shape you are not pregnant and it's can get that inevitably become pregnant and that is to be the best thing that would be you. But Saturday's accident. Perfect -- that the time."

" I happen to kind of put the -- theory out I. Like that. Okay so you have to you have to going to the army Atlantic hey if you've got circuit my you know if you attribute that I -- that -- negative -- anything like that. Yeah I'd tell get a vasectomy. Exactly what capable and qualified and -- that coming up."

" That'll -- little problem all right Charlie thank you. By. Doctor Monica -- is with us for tonight's life -- she's an OB GY and you can go to the website just answered dot com or you can find her as an expert -- to take one more round of calls. The numbers dated 8925554. If any women's health quest ends. Doctor Monica -- is here to answer that this is your time with him Iverson. OB GY and doctor Monica Turner is on the line with us for tonight's life lines -- question and it's 8889. Call PM hi Jennifer your on the line what's your question."

" I. I have a question about -- broker -- I've been using their -- there since 2001. And I know that now it says he shouldn't eat it for more than two years because the causes bone loss. And I've had bone density test and their find. I guess they wanted to know whether there's any health issues that you think apple so there about long and it has any impact on your fertility."

" Jennifer and how they are 3838. I would definitely recommend you talk to your doctor about. Probably put control. Better much better -- you and -- yes. The thing with that Papa bear is that. Because you're passenger levels. He could be you're bound to. May not reach their peak. Density at their peak at their peak strength which is -- hurt by early thirties I went back you're first starting that -- And that then later on -- life today and Karachi to develop osteoporosis because. -- both were not did not become as strong as the average person. So having a normal about this city now is is great. And they say that you can't really continue to -- there. Monitor at 38 this is probably. Are you gonna bite them having to hand I know I've never Hackett. Are you planning to have to. I get married. Okay. Because it becomes harder to conceive after -- 35. And I'm being -- prepare for that long it is apparently taking that your body a lot longer to figure things out and get back to normal. I would definitely recommend you just come off that it. Maybe it's fitted bed and IED. I'm the low maintenance that you don't really have to worry about. With an ID. Is. This the type of places out of your uterine. This -- lining because he appears to become sort of either. Probably even nonexistent it's. But yeah I O'Leary's. The comeback collides with a speech this stop producing patches and again. Com and way to exercise your bones can become stronger. And then hopefully they appear appears to -- regular. You'll be able to concede some. OK thank you your lap down."

" Right have a good one thing I. Doctor Monica alliance people called in and asked about gave birth control called Marie and now what is that."

" Marina is CI ED which the entry -- end -- by and placed by your doctor. The -- that particular IED that is concluded live. The hormone. And that hormone actually endowed -- lining. I'm content this sort of prior period but we commonly -- with by the -- kind of a similar thing. Because that devices placed inside of your uterine. And you don't have to worry about remembering anything you -- apparently they removal the ring prohibit dialing every month. It."

" You know to see this go off and it will digest that -- Is it like once a year you have to get it replaced or something."

" No let's go to Larry that is -- you -- though it is. If you wanna have a baby stars and that of course you go and get it taken out and -- to get pregnant within the next few months Hollywood and one -- that's a presidential candidate tiger's. Not -- not ready to have another child. -- after five years just have one taken out and then -- new incidents."

" All right thank you doctor Monica Turner OB GY and go to the website just answered dot com. She is there's an expert. You can also find her private practice just outside of Dallas thanks for joining us for life like hearing your time with you -- percent."